Personally, i think this is one of the most overrated words in the dictionary, there are so many people pressured today to lose this thing called 'Virginity'. Your status of whether you're a virgin or not, doesnt make you less of a person.Losing it doesnt instantly mean your a slut/whore, neither does the fact that keeping it makes you completely innocent.
Virginity maybe a sacred symbol in some peoples mind, but it doesnt determine the personality of the person.
It is shocking to find out that a 13/14 year old nowadays lost their virginity, but that doesnt make them a horrible person. You don't know why they chose to give it up. Some times people make mistakes.
They might of been 2 people who were in love and they knew that it was the right moment and chose to do it. So is someone a slut because they had sex with someone they love? If your mind is set that way, then your mom is quite the slut for having sex with your father.
Honestly, I lost my virginity because I just had sex. I wasn’t in love. I wasn’t playing the girl. We both had a mutual agreement and chose to do it. Does that make me less of a person? I don’t know thats up to you to decide. I believe I didn’t change. I stayed my same humble self. When you ask me if I’m a virgin or not, I’ll honestly answer kind of. Now why I say maybe is because I don’t believe someone completely loses their virginity until they have had sex with someone they truly love. I would explain that more but thats not the point of this post.
My point is, why should someone’s status of virginity determine their personality or mindset? It doesn’t make you a slut if you’re not and it doesn’t make you innocent if you’re not. It varies from person to person. The lack of virginity shouldn’t make you judge someone, get to know them.
In other news, 50 Cent offended the Homosexual crowd yesterday, via twitter..again.
